Nornie, Kirkland, Washington

I wanted to let you know that Dakota transitioned yesterday morning. I felt clear that it was right to help her this way, but I feel sad for me. Seems like another direct hit on top of a couple others that have landed pretty hard in the last few months. I awoke this morning, though, grateful for her that she is released from the struggle of being in that body. It was always a very beautiful one, but frequently not a very cooperative one. I often prayed for her to have a bit more goddess energy — perhaps she has it now. The communication you facilitated was so helpful. I took advantage of the short time I had left with her to do some review with her, as you suggested, and I know she was assured of my love for her. She gave me much and taught me much, usually in unexpected ways. I thought you would be interested to know that the first sign I had something was changing was on Monday afternoon. I came home from being out and noticed that her lip on the right side of her face was swollen. I checked as carefully as I could to see if I could ascertain what was going on, remembering that you kept getting a hit about her teeth. I made an appointment with my vet to have him check her out, but by Tuesday morning the swelling had more than doubled in size and was clearly causing her a lot of distress. I took her in right away, and as we assessed what she was experiencing, it was evident that she was crashing in a number of ways. There was no doubt in either my mind or the vet’s that clearly the kindest thing was to help her transition. I never ever thought that Dakota would be with me longer than Tucker. She was with me when he joined us, and she was still with me when he left. It was truly a comfort to have her here as I grieved Tucker’s loss these last 8 weeks. I reassured her over and over that I would gladly care for her as long as she wanted to be here, and I would be okay if she was ready to let go. She stayed long enough for me to begin to heal — and to be strong enough now I must start again. I am opening myself to feeling who might next step into the space here — in my home and in my heart — that so needs a dog friend. I’ll let you know what unfolds. Thank you for sharing your compassion and gifted skills with me and Tucker and Dakota. We are all blessed by the connection. You gave me invaluable insights and some words to make me smile, as well, and store in my treasure house of memories. All blessings to you in the new year, Joan.

-Nornie, Kirkland, Washington